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Dalam kehidupan Rumah Tangga berjalan sedikit perbedaan pendapat pada suami istri yaitu hal yang wajar. dengan kondisi seperti apapun seorang istri mesti memelankan suaranyaketika bicara dengan suaminya walaupun dia mengganggap gagasannya benar. Seorang suami yaitu orang yang paling harus ditaati dan dihormati oleh istri. Seperti kita ketahui bila Rasulullah dalam beberapa haditsnya menunjukkan begitu tinggi kedudukan suami untuk istrinya : 


“Seandai saya dapat memerintahkan seseorang untuk sujud pada orang lain, tentu saya perintahkan seorang istri utk sujud pada suaminya. ” (HR Abu Daud, Al-Hakim, Tirmidzi) 


“Tidaklah layak untuk seorang manusia untuk sujud pada manusia yang lain. Bila patut/bisa untuk seorang untuk sujud pada seorang yang lain pasti saya perintahkan istri untuk sujud pada suaminya karena besarnya hak suaminya terhadapnya…” (HR. Ahmad) 


“Dan sebaik-baik istri yaitu yang taat pada suaminya, bijaksana, berketurunan, sedikit bicara, tidak sukai membicarakan satu hal yg tidak berguna, tidak cerewet dan tak sukai bersuara hingar-bingar dan setia pada suaminya. ” (HR. An Nasa'i) 


Apabila suami berbuat salah atau salah, Jadi sudah harusnya untuk sang istri untuk mengingatkan suami dengan baik, dengan nada lemah lembut, tidak membentak (berjumpara keras), serta tidak juga menyinggung perasaannya. 


Sikap kasar istri pada suami –dan sebaliknya– menandakan kurangnya pengetahuan serta keburukan akhlak. Rasulullah SAW bersabda : 


“Sebaik-baiknya wanita — untuk suami — yaitu yang menyenangkan waktu diliat, taat waktu diperintah, serta tidak menentang suaminya baik dalam hatinya dan tidak membelanjakan (memakai) hartanya pada perkara yang dibenci suaminya” (H. R. Ahmad) 


Sebagaimana anak bisa dikira durhaka pada orang tua, jadi istri dapat juga dikatakan durhaka pada suami sementara berani membentaknya. Wallahu A'lam. 




Bidadari Berang pada Istri yang Memarahi Suaminya 


Bila seseorang suami dibentak atau di dzalimi oleh istrinya, jadi beberapa bidadari di surga akan geram pada istri yang memarahi suaminya. 


Rasulullah -Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam- bersabda, 


لاَ تُؤ�'ذِي ام�'رَأَةٌ زَو�'جَهَا فِي الدُّن�'يَا إِلاَّ قَالَت�' زَو�'جَتُهُ مِنَ ال�'حُو�'رِ ال�'عِي�'نِ : لاَ تُؤ�'ذِي�'هِ, قَاتَلَكِ اللهُ, فَإِنَّمَا هُوَ عِن�'دَكَ دَخِي�'لٌ يُو�'شِكُ أَن�' يُفَارِقَكِ إِلَي�'نَا 


“Tidaklah seseorang istri menyakiti suaminya di dunia, namun istrinya dari grup bidadari akan berkata, “Janganlah engkau menyakitinya. Mudah-mudahan Allah memusuhimu. Dia (sang suami) hanya tamu di sisimu ; hampir saja ia akan meninggalkanmu menuju pada kami” (HR. At-Tirmidzi) 


Ini seharusnya jadi pelajaran untuk banyak istri tidak untuk mendzalimi suaminya. Saingannya berat, saingannya bukanlah lagi madumu atau yang lain. namun sainganmu yaitu bidadari yang Allah subhaanahu wa ta'ala mensifatkannya di dalam Al qur'an. Diantara sifatnya yaitu : 


إِنَّ لِل�'مُتَّقِينَ مَفَازًا حَدَائِقَ وَأَع�'نَابًا 
وَكَوَاعِبَ 




أَت�'رَابًا 


" Sebenarnya orang-orang yang bertaqwa memperoleh kemenangan, (yaitu) kebun-kebun serta buah anggur, dan gadis-gadis remaja yang sebaya. " (QS an-Naba' : 31-33) 


كَذَلِكَ 




وَزَوَّج�'نَاهُم�' بِحُورٍ عِينٍ 


" Sekianlah, dan Kami berikanlah pada mereka bidadari. " (QS. Ad-Dhukhan : 54) 


مُتَّكِئِينَ عَلَى سُرُرٍ مَص�'فُوفَةٍ وَزَوَّج�'نَاهُم�' بِحُورٍ عِينٍ 


" Mereka bertelekan diatas dipan-dipan berderetan dan kami kawinkan mereka dengan bidadari-bidadari yang cantik bermata cermat. " (QS. At-Thur : 20) 


حُورٌ مَق�'صُورَاتٌ فِي ال�'خِيَامِ 


" (Bidadari-bidadari) yang jelita, putih bersih, dipingit dalam rumah. " (QS. Ar-Rahman : 72) 


فِيهِنَّ خَي�'رَاتٌ حِسَانٌ 


" Di dalam surga itu ada bidadari-bidadari yang baik-baik lagi cantik-cantik. " (QS. Ar-Rahman : 70) 


إِنَّا أَن�'شَأ�'نَاهُنَّ إِن�'شَاءً فَجَعَل�'نَاهُنَّ أَب�'كَارًا عُرُبًا أَت�'رَابًا 


" Sebenarnya kami menciptakan mereka (bidadari-bidadari) dengan segera. 1 Dan kami menjadikan mereka gadis-gadis perawan. Penuh cinta lagi sebaya umurnya. " (QS. Al-Waqi'ah : 35-37) 


Hadits Abdullah ibnu Mas’ud Radiyallahu 'anhu : 


أَوَّلُ زُم�'رَةٍ يَد�'خُلُونَ ال�'جَنَّةَ كَأَنَّ وُجُوهَهُم�' ضَو�'ءُ ال�'قَمَرِ لَي�'لَةَ ال�'بَد�'رِ، وَال�'زُّم�'رَةُ الثَّانِيَةُ عَلَى لَو�'نِ أَح�'سَنِ كَو�'كَبٍ دُريَ فِي السَّمَاءِ، لِكُل رَجُلٍ مِن�'هُم�' زَو�'جَتَانِ مِنَ ال�'حُورِ ال�'عِينِ، عَلَى كُل زَو�'جَةٍ سَب�'عُونَ حُلَّةً، يُرَىٰ مُخُّ سُوقِهِمَا مِن�' وَرَاءِ لُحُومِهِمَا وَحُلَلِهِمَا، كَمَا يُرَىٰ الشَّرَابُ الأَح�'مَرُ فِي الزُّجَاجَةِ ال�'بَي�'ضَاءِ 


“Kelompok pertama kalinya yang masuk surga, seolah muka mereka sinar rembulan pada malam purnama. Grup ke-2 seperti bintang kejora yang paling baik di langit. Untuk setiap orang dari ahli surga itu dua bidadari surga. Pada setiap bidadari ada 70 perhiasan. Sumsum kakinya dapat terlihat dari balik daging dan perhiasannya, sebagaimana minuman merah bisa diliat di gelas putih. ” (HR. Thabrani dengan sanad shahih) 


Nah beberapa istri, janganlah mendzalimi terlebih membentak suami kalian lagi. sainganmu bidadari loh! 


Solusi Apabila Memanglah Ingin Marah Pada Suami 


Apabila kemarahan menempa serta sudah tidak tertahankan, pastinya tak dianjurkan untuk mengekspresikan melalui cara meledak-ledak di depan pasangan. Terutama dengan cara membentak. Ada beberapa hal yang bisa kita jalankan apabila tengah ingin berang pada suami. 


Hal yang pertama dikerjakan yaitu katakan istighfar. Mohon ampunlah pada Allah. Istighfar akan memperingan hati kita. 


Kemudian, klarifikasi secara detail duduk masalah. janganlah ikuti nafsu karena emosi akan semakin meluap-luap. Tetapi sebisa mungkin, tahanlah dulu emosi. 


Karena bicara dalam keadaan emosi hanya akan memperburuk kondisi, karena terkadang kita inginkan menumpahkan kekesalan, bahkan juga kekesalan yang telah lalu. 


Apabila di rasa sudah bisa mengendalikan diri, Ambillah air wudhu lalu lakukan shalat dan berdoalah. Adukan semua masalah pada Allah. Semua kekesalan, kecewa, adukan saja. Dan tidak lupa, mintalah padaNya untuk diberikan jalan keluar. 


Apabila diri sudah tenang, awalilah bicara dengan suami. Ingat, yang akan dibicarakan yaitu dalam rangka mencari jalan keluar, tidaklah untuk menambahkan kericuhan. Tidak lupa, ada unsur saling menasehati dalam rumah tangga. Berikan nasehat pada pasangan atas kesalahan yang dikerjakan. 


Semoga beberapa hal itu bisa makin mewujudkan keluarga sakinah, mawaddah serta rahmah dalam rumah tangga kita. Aamiin

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10 Easy Steps to Succeed in Your Online Classes

Congratulations Youve made up our minds to pursue your upper schooling, and doing so online is how to pass if you have an interest in a versatile, studentcentered educating manner. Studying online permits you to pursue different pursuits and attend to different responsibilities whilst nonetheless operating your method towards some extent. However, it will now and again imply that its clean to get distracted. Here are 10 clean steps to verify luck on your online categories.

  1. Connect together with your instructors once conceivable. Even in case you are doing smartly within the category, its extraordinarily vital to increase a rapport together with your trainer. When you do that early on, you temporarily understand what the priorities are within the route, what expectancies the professor has of you and youre going to be motivated to prevail, surer of whats forward and higher ready to do smartly with the impending subject material.

Valuable questions to invite your trainer come with the next

How versatile are you with time limits How versatile are you with grownup freshmen What applied sciences do you employ within the route How to be had are you through e mail and different sorts of verbal exchange How do you put up an internet neighborhood and what are the expectancies for participation in it In addition, since instructors are to be had to lend a hand all over the classes, its all the time just right to have had private touch with the trainer early on. This method, when you wish to have lend a hand, its more straightforward to achieve out and get the help you wish to have.

  1. Confirm the technical necessities of the route. Online categories can also be very advisable for college kids with busy schedules, however provided that they are able to simply get right of entry to the fabrics. It is vital to obviously perceive what the technical necessities are. So, ahead of the route begins or as quickly thereafter as conceivable, youll want to test that your pc will paintings with the entire online equipment, and that you understand how to navigate them. This will be sure that you dont must spend time all the way through the route attempting to determine the generation.

three. Create a time table and stick with it. Quality online instructors create classes which might be clean to navigate and feature transparent expectancies. Having that roughly easytodealwith framework in position will make learning and succeeding that a lot more straightforward. However, although the framework and necessities of your category arent as transparent, youll create a time table and construction, which is able to very much fortify your probabilities of luck within the route. Using equipment equivalent to Google Calendar is a good way to start out. Knowing how your weeks and months glance and scheduling blocks of analysis time for each and every activity or module will will let you stick with a time table.

four. Ask questionsall the time. When you dont perceive, ask questions. When you do perceive, ask additional questions. Instructors recognize scholars who take part, and if theres a participation or dialogue part a part of the grade, then asking high quality questions is helping guarantee your grade on this space. Even if there isnt a participation part, its all the time helpful to invite inquiries to remember to perceive the fabric and are transparent on what is needed of you.

five. Be arrangedand keep arranged. Students whore taking conventional, campusbased classes most often have a constant time table to observe each and every week, through which study room instruction is adopted through assignments out of doors the category. However, for online classes, scholars will have to search out their very own techniques to stick on most sensible in their paintings. It is crucial that you just be arranged from the start of the semester with the intention to achieve success in an internet route. For instance mark task due dates on your calendar, discover a submitting machine for each online subject material and bodily subject material that is helping you stay monitor of the whole lot simply, and shed light on find out about schedules that duvet sections of the route one by one so youve got an arranged tactic to protecting the semesters subject material as you pass alongside.

  1. Have a blank, quiet, and constant workspace. One factor online and inclass classes have in not unusual is that scholars all the time want a spot to review or whole assignments this is blank, quiet, and constant. You can select the place that is for youwhether or not its at a espresso store, a college library, a devoted place of business, or at house. Wherever you select to review and whole assignments, you must make it a constant location that doesnt have out of doors distractions. It is basically key that where is quiet and lets you focal point in your paintings with out distractions.
  2. Do no longer procrastinate. Successful distance freshmen hardly procrastinate. They dont do away with assignments or wait till the final second to write down their papers. Successful online scholars experience freedoms that come with operating at their very own tempo and the facility to finish their paintings in as a lot time because it takes them. On the opposite hand, they know that finishing their assignments is best performed early and on time cramming merely doesnt paintings, and it doesnt will let you retain knowledge longterm. Get began early on getting a success.

eight. Work in your studying comprehension. Successful distance freshmen generally tend to have just right studying comprehension abilities. Most conventional, campusbased scholars concentrate to lectures and take notes, and a few online classes additionally require this. However, the vast majority of distance freshmen are anticipated to grasp subject material thru a large amount of studying. Although far finding out classes be offering video recordings and audio clips, maximum systems require scholars to hide and grasp a considerable amount of written knowledge. If it is a problem for you, it could be very useful to first sign up in a studying comprehension route there are lots of assets online that will help you do that. This ability by myself could make a huge distinction on your luck.

nine. Establish and admire routines that be just right for you. If, for instance, youre employed best within the morning or in brief bursts, then set find out about routines that can help you find out about within the prelunch hours when your mind is contemporary. If, then again, you do best through learning at evening or at the weekends when youll devote nightowl hours or longer blocks in your learning, then make it some degree to take action. Consider how and whilst you paintings best, and enforce a find out about plan that respects the routines that be just right for you.

  1. Connect together with your friends. Establishing sturdy connections with friends and professors is a very powerful facet of tutorial luck, in addition to skilled development. One of essentially the most rewarding reports in schooling is finding out thru collaboration. Forming significant relationships together with your friends and professors can can help you be told extra, keep motivated, and feature an outlet to specific your personal working out of subject material. So, keep attached thru message forums, chat rooms, e mail, and different digital assets. And take note lots of the other people you meet in faculty shall be conceivable process assets down the road so determine connections and keep in contact

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